Overcome your relationship hurdles with Relationship Coaching.

Sometimes, your relationship needs a helping hand. Whether you are ready to get this help alone or as a couple, Lisa is here to support you in facing and having those difficult conversations needed to stop those unhelpful and sometimes, life-draining ruts.

We need to forget what we think we are, so that we can really become what we are.

Paulo Coelho

Often people choose Relationship coaching as a last resort, and while this is certainly a tool that can help when you have reached breaking point. It is also a great way to ensure your relationship never reaches those cliff edges, by including them as part of your monthly, quarterly or yearly plans.

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How can relationship coaching help me?

When you think about it, the relationships that we have in our lives play a massive role in our day-to-day thoughts, feelings, emotions, productivity and happiness. If we are happy with the connections that we have with our nearest and dearest, everything else in life seems much more manageable and enjoyable. As well as that, it makes us feel excited and positive about what our future holds. Yet, we are never actually educated on how to have relationships, how to overcome obstacles, how to argue and how to communicate in a way that isnt defensive or inconsiderate to our other halves.

This is where relationship coaching comes in, as a certified relationship coach Lisa will support you and/or your partner by creating a safe space, free from judgement and fear to overcome those current communication barriers and break down those walls that have been built up over time. Relationship coaching will help:

“Let’s live big, let’s live awesomely, let’s strive for greatness, and live the life we always knew we could.”

Lisa McFarland

How it works

Step 1

Decide if you want individual coaching or couples coaching. If you are unsure, pop Lisa an email or an Instagram message and Lisa will point you in the right direction.

Step 2

Book your first coaching session (45mins – 60mins). Which will be completed via zoom – This allows you the flexibility to book these over your lunch break and allows you the ability to connect in a space that feels safe to you.

Step 3

Review your additional needs. Sometimes, all someone needs is one coaching course, to help kick start those difficult conversations, others prefer fortnightly, monthly or bi-monthly coaching sessions. Lisa will work at your pace, this is your journey.

How Coaching Has Helped Others

Thank you, Lisa. I hope you do too. Thanks for everything. I know it’s early days and we will see where we are by next month. But there has been a massive shift in everything since the last session. I don’t even recognize us! It’s like we are dating again. It’s been a brilliant weekend. Lots of affection, laughs and caring conversations. I don’t know what exactly it was you said but we are doing all the things you said and more. And it’s been amazing. I can’t thank you enough. I know these things take time but the fact there has been a shift at all is half the battle, I think. We have been smiling and hugging nonstop since Friday. And maybe a little more. . Very glad we found you. Hopefully this is the start of a better version of us. I feel like we found each other again.


My wife and I are fairly new clients to Lisa, having only had two sessions to date but recommend her highly. Our appointments are informal yet informative and she really allows us to focus on the areas we need to address. One of our primary goals when choosing to sit down with Lisa was to improve our communication as a couple and better understand each others' perspective on things and the areas we have worked through and advice and tasks suggested have helped us enormously in this regard. While we understand a relationship needs constant work to succeed and evolve we both feel confident that Lisa has put us back on the right path in our marriage and look forward to continuing to work with her to make it the best it can be.


    How Coaching Has Helped Others

    Thank you so much, I cant tell you what it means to me to feel part of a sisterhood again and to find acceptance in a world where there was none. My tribe, you found me and dragged me out of the dark place. I love you all!

    Retreat Attendee

    Thank you so much Lisa for creating this special weekend for us. I feel so blessed to have shared it with so many beautiful women and I am inspired by you all. I am in awe of you Alex for showing me how to be a warrior again and to know I’m not alone in processing trauma. If this tribe doesn’t get me through nothing will. I love you all and I can’t wait to see you all again!


      Meet Lisa:

      Hello, My Name Is Lisa McFarland,I am the UK & Ireland’s Leading Relationship Coach and the founder of Relationship Coaching NI but more importantly, I have been where you are now. My husband and I have been together 32 years and I can honestly say I am more in love with him now than ever, for a long time though, this wasnt the case…

      1 to 1

      Coaching Session

      Coaching session for those who have recently gone through a break-up, who want to be a better communicator in their relationship or want to work on their self-esteem. A 1 to 1 coaching session can be anything you need it to be to work for YOU.

      (45 mins)


      Coaching Session

      Coaching session to give couples tips and tools to make their relationship better today and beyond. Couples coaching sessions can be used for many things, communication, healthy conflict, intimacy and so much more. These sessions are tailored to each couple individually.

      (per hour)

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        Frequently asked questions

        Q. How do I know if I am ready?

        The chances are, if you have landed on this page, then you are ready.  Coaching is a personal choice and can be taken at any time in your life.  There are no commitments to continue with coaching as you can book one session at a time.  Why not check out Lisa’s Instagram page to get a feel for your coach prior to booking.

        Q. I really want my partner to join me in these sessions but I dont think they will agree. Do you have any advice?

        This is the number one query that comes up when someone looks into relationship coaching and with communication being the number one issue that most couples have, sometimes couples coaching isn’t an easy thing to bring up.  Why not start with my relationship reconnect letter to start the initial conversations going.  Click here to download.

        Q. Do I need to prepare anything for my sessions?

        No, all thats needed is yourself (and your partner if booking couples coaching).  We would recommend finding a quiet space to allow you to freely speak throughout your session

        Q. I am afraid that coaching will highlight issues that I dont want to address. Does this happen?

        Yes, this can happen, however Lisa provides a safe space to talk through these issues and will guide you in a gentle encouraging way.  If Lisa finds that additional support is required, Lisa will recommend additional therapy or support options that are available to you.

        Q. How much does coaching cost and when do I pay?

        Individual coaching is £60 per session and couples coaching is £72 per session.  Payment is required upfront when booking.

        Q. Is there a discount for booking several coaching sessions?

        Yes, discount for blocked bookings are available. To enquire please complete our enquiry form to find out more. 

        Happily ever after is not a fairytale. It’s a choice.

        Fawn Weaver

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